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Spiny Norman's avatar

Purely anecdotal experience, but this is in keeping with my interactions with British folk of a certain type.

For many years (nearly 20), I worked with an Englishman at a consultancy in the US. He was a very well mannered, well educated person - son of an upper rank Army officer, public school, first-class honors degree from Oxford, multiple post-grad degrees. I don’t know his exact age, but I recall he came to the US in the late 70s shortly after completing his first grad degree. In terms of sheer intellectual horsepower, one of the smartest people I have ever met. Also liked and respected by everyone in the office.

One week, he fails to show up for work (he was high enough in the organization that he didn’t need to make excuses for an absence). He comes back about 10 days later. We all remarked on his absence, expressed concern, and asked the cause. He responded in a chipper almost joking tone, “My mother kicked the bucket. We had to bury her.” And he didn’t say anything else about it. Ever.

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Derek LeDayn's avatar

My opinion: You’re judging Russell according to standards that did not apply in 1948, to a man of his social class. Nor did they apply to men where I was brought up, in 1958 or 1968.

Both his reported comments and in his autobiography he seemed to me quite clearly playing it down. Both are dispassionate and bare descriptions of his experience. Eulogy’s about the dead were not appropriate.

Playing the amateur psychiatrist on such scant evidence is foolish.

And now I’ve written the above it occurs to me that I’ve responded to social media click bait – something ridiculous or provocative, just more words than usual or Fbook or X.

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